The first link asks me to confirm my age - just NO.
The content was marked "adult only" because it's CCTV footage showing a man catching on fire. He appears to survive, but it could be traumatic for a child to watch.
The socone shows a PERFECT example of someone doing EVERYTHING wrong. We've all been told countless times to NEVER get in/out of a vehicle when it's fueling (adding petrol). SHE created the static electric charge by entering and leaving the vehicle (probably wearing some synthetic material like nylon, polyester, etc.) and then sliding across the fabric car seat. Then, once she was "charged", touching the fuel nozzle and that charged touch ignited the fumes.
You call it "doing everything wrong". I call it "WAY too easy to burn yourself, your car, and the gas station to the ground."
And yes,
I have been taught not to do what she did, and
you have been taught that as well. But where did you learn it? I learned it from my parents. It was never mentioned as part of a PA driver's test. I can certainly understand why some people may not be aware of this danger.
OTOH, I could rub balloons on my head before using a charging station plug and not have any issues. I could dump a bucket of salt water on the plug too without worries. It's simply much safer.