All NEMA 14-50 outlets you can easily purchase in the US are UL rated, surprisingly, that doesn't mean all of them are high quality, it simply means they manufacturer says they tested it and it worked properly. I don't even think UL tests them all themselves, but, even if they did, they would be testing new units, not older ones with use and oxidation. Also, most of the burned/melted outlets are from "reputable" manufacturers like Levitron, etc. It means nothing when the almighty dollar is at stake, most of the UL listed outlets from "reputable" manufacturers are garbage. If you want a good one, you might have to buy it online or go to a specialty store, not the big-box store.
Even the highest quality outlet is sub-optimal for charging EV's. It's actually easier to hard wire a wall unit vs. NEMA 14-50 and it's cheaper to run the wires because you need 3 wires (two conductors and a ground) vs. 4 wires for the NEMA 14-50 (three conductors and a ground). Using a NEMA 14-50 instead of hard wiring requires more than 33% more copper for the same sized circuit (because conductors have to be a larger diameter than the ground and there is one more wire) and it requires making at least two more electrical connections. It is a violation of electrical code to install a NEMA 14-50 with only two conductors and a ground while that is the only way to install a Wall Connector.
I don't know why we have so many people pushing the use of a charger intended for charging on a road trip for everyday use at home. There is a reason it has "mobile" in the name, because that's what it's designed for. Sure, Mobile Connectors work, and I wouldn't hesitate to use one if the outlet is there, after checking it for safety. But it makes no sense for new installs to not hard wire the charging station that is actually intended for home use. The money you save on wire and not needing to buy a NEMA-14-50 will nearly pay for the difference between the Mobile Charger and a more robust Wall Connector.
People say, "What if I move? I want to take my charger with me." Personally, if I own the house, I would rather list the house for sale as coming with a NACS compatible EV charging station of xx amps than mess around with bringing it with me. Are you going to bring that expensive Hubble NEMA 14-50 with you too? LOL! But if you really want to take a Wall Connector with you, it's super simple. take it off the bracket by loosening one retaining screw, remove the bracket from the wall by using an electric screwdriver, and loosen the three terminal connections and remove the three wires and cap them with wire nuts. Then the new buyer can mount their own Wall Connector there, LOL! Some people will take their hardwired range and dishwasher with them too!
Nearly everyone will be driving EV's in 10 years so nearly every house will need a NACS compatible charging station (or two or three in a power-sharing arrangement). Mobile connectors cannot work in a power-sharing arrangement, the Wall Connector wins again! I think people that hate EV's might be the ones be the ones behind recommending NEMA outlets as a primary charging solution because they don't want to see real permanent EV charging infrastructure start to become ubiquitous in most homes. Because guess what kind of car the buyer of a new home equipped with a Wall Connector is likely to buy after they get moved in? That's right, an ELECTRIC car. Oh, the horrors of it!