@jonco223 Thanks man, you helped save my wife & I's neck & back. Lowered comfort "issues" my wife has for the 3 vs her comfy, cushy, tall 2008 RX.
Our builds, heights, (upright?) postures causes us to play head-forward/neck-pain roulette whenever we rent cars. Some so bad/have *very* far forward headrests our heads actually tilt down toward steering wheel when driving in our usual positions.
Our June/027XXX VIN 3's aren't as bad as that but are noticeably farther forward (for our seating positions) than other cars we've owned (e.g. 2008 RX, 2016 base/TSI Golf, others). Played around with 3 seat's many positions several times and headrest position was always still (somewhat) annoying, esp. on longer or non-smooth drives & when compared to our other cars. E.g. the Golf
feels more vertical in headrest stance, not tilted forward like 3s, and of course has up/down headrest adj that our 3s lack.
Those that experience this issue know what this means; your primary(?) upper-body contact area is the back of your head vs your shoulders & upper back as it should be. And, yes, I know the safety implications surrounding whiplash threat and after this mod our heads still either rest on the headrests, or are within an inch of them, during driving - they just don't press into the headrests nearly as much.
Some tips FWIW beyond those in the video:
* didn't remove headrest cover, just used soft towel as others say. No marks, etc, no evidence of work on them afterwards
* actually made a sort of jig using 2 thick, smooth plywood scraps to hold/support all of both front & back of headrests
* used a large C clamp across top of plywood brace boards/between headrest stalks as a hand-hold & to maintain integrity/position of headrest clamping boards
* bought $10 1/2" x 24" (Southland 563-240HC) Galvanized/****** pipe from HD. Only thing needed for bending, nearly perfect ID to fit stalks & long enough for leverage. And
could be returned after job as its not affected in any way by the job.
Following video went back 2" from stock stalk tips & now find the positioning acceptable for both of us. Again our heads still rest on headrest or within about an inch of it. Would think 2X about bending > 2"/2.5" at stalk tips, and may not help further based on the angle/shape of the headrest. This mod brings our car one step closer to perfection (want that Blind Spot Monitoring!)
P.S. IMO flipping headrests around puts them way too far back for safe use, at least for any builds/postures I can imagine. Plus they look funny that way. Do the mod instead.